Friday, December 9, 2011
lmao..How is This a Real Song?
I've included a video with the lyrics so you can follow along. I'm trying to figure out if a religious person should be offended, or if it's actually a legitimate reason to pray for.
"Oh Lord, don't let me cheat on my girlfriend. But Lord, if you can't stop me from cheating, just don't let me get caught (neva eva. Neva eva)". Hahahaha
Good luck with exams, everyone
- knowledge
Thursday, January 7, 2010
Home-Wrecking's Underrated
I hear people say that "all's fair in love & war", yet denounce the "evil" home-wrecker right after - without realizing that It's a complete contradiction!
Before going any further with this...I'd like to diffrentiate between cheating & home-wrecking. Cheating is adulterous; not having faith to one
spouse/[significant other]. Home-wrecking CAN (and usually does) cause someone to cheat, but it doesn't always lead to that.
Home-wrecking's underrated. Everyone sees it as this evil, immoral thing. I see it as a wake-up call.
There's nothing wrong with home-wrecking (but I personally draw the line if it's to a friend).
Think about it: home-wrecking only provides what another person wasn't able to.
If you want to blame anyone...blame yourself for not being good enough, or blame your significant other for not having the decency to break up with you before hooking up. Or you can blame each other for not doing enough to keep it together - but the third person isn't any more guilty than the first two.
The only reason the link was broken, was 'cause it wasn't strong enough to begin with.
That's like Chevy getting mad that people are buying Hondas, instead of theirs. Imagine the CEO of chevy saying: "oh man, life's so unfair. Honda made a better car than us. It's all THEIR fault that WE aren't selling cars." You gotta be kidding me! Blame yourself for not making a better car, or blame yourself for not releasing a car that people would still want in a couple of years...but don't blame someone else for YOUR mistakes & insufficiencies. Hell, you can even blame yourself for being stupid enough to make a car that no one wants to have...but DON'T blame someone for doing better than you.
I'm absolutely against cheating...but in most cases, if someone's cheating on you...then you've picked the wrong person to be with, or haven't done enough to keep them. If it's the first - cut your losses & move on. If it's the second - cut your losses, make sure not to do it again, & move on.
The next time you try to blame someone for the failure of YOUR relationship, remember that the relationship was yours to begin with.
If "homewrecking's wrong", then let's call it "relationship testing"...It's all the same shit. Just get that weak, "it's-all-person-c's-fault" bullshit out of your heads 'cause you're only lying to yourselves.
Does it change if the person's married? No. They should still have the self-control to resist cheating. If they're not satisfied, and have tried everything that they can...then maybe a divorce is in order. It still doesn't change if we add children into the equation - keep it together for the kids or satiate yourself first...I personally don't give a damn what your priorities are.
...As long as you don't put all the blame on the 3rd person.
Peace,
- knowledge